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Full Face

Don't be afraid to get all up in there. “Instead of just using your tongue, see how it feels to use your whole face to pleasure your partner,” says Davis-Fainbloom. “The warmth and texture of a cheek, alongside the gentle pressure of a nose (trust!), can provide a unique and stimulating sensation against the vulva or penis.” If you want to put a little lube on your nose, go to town.

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The Booty

Adding some butt stuff can enhance oral, amp up orgasms, and expand your kinkiness altogether. “See how it feels to put anal beads in your partner and slowly take them out as you give your partner oral pleasure,” says Davis-Fainbloom. For optimal oomph, pull them out one by one at the moment of orgasm. “When timed right, the slow removal of the beads at peak moments can amplify pleasure significantly, creating a memorable and enjoyable exploration of new sensations together.” You can also use anal beads in the vagina—just make sure you have a dedicated V-only pair.

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The Novelist

Inspired by the viral Hysterical Literature Youtube series, watch your partner get overcome by lust by having them read aloud from a book while the other partner gives them oral pleasure. You can choose any book—or a sexy book to up the ante—and see how long they can keep it together. Watching them finally break, despite their best efforts, is what makes this so hot. “As soon as they cannot articulate words properly, switch, and the other partner will receive oral," recommends Davis-Fainbloom.

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The Sensation Player

“If you want to explore more of your sensuality in the bedroom, this one's for you,” says Drysdale. “Grab a cup of ice and another cup of warm water. Take one cube of ice in your mouth when going down on your partner to allow them to explore the cool sensations. Next, switch it up with the warm water. This allows you to slow it down while heating up your oral game.” (Make sure your partner is down with this beforehand—no one likes surprise ice groin.)

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The Other Kind of Vanilla

“Not a fan of your partner’s taste or want to experiment with different flavors?” says Drysdale. Flavored lube to the rescue! “Grab a handful of WOO More Play’s Coconut Love Oil and apply it to your partner’s genitals generously. This lube will have your partner tasting like the most delicious vanilla cupcakes, without a yeast infection in sight.” (It's organic and all-natural!)

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Sideways Oral

Try the Kivin Method, which is basically oral from the side, but it changes the sensations completely. The receiver lies on their back with their leg lifted while the giver goes in sideways under the leg and slides their tongue up and down along the receiver's vulva. Pop a rumbly internal vibe in and prepare to roll you eyes back into your head.

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The Chin Dildo

Okay, hear me out: Chin Dildo. “Once you get over giggling at your partner with a dildo strapped to their chin, using this sexy (silly-looking) tool gives you the best of both worlds: delicious oral and having your V filled at the same time!” says head content creator at Bedbible.com, Edwina Caito. The brave dildo wearer multi-tasks, licking and sucking while moving their head around to bone you with their dildo chin.

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Tantric Oral

Instead of focusing on a specific position, try focusing deeply on your partner—particularly their genitals. In Tantra, oral sex is “a tasting of another person’s soul,” says sexual wellness expert Kenya Stevens, founder of Progressive Love Academy. “It’s not about friction or motion; it's about connecting to the genitals.” Start by slowing down and admiring your partner’s body. “Adorn them with organic, food-grade oil such as coconut or avocado, and gaze, rub, speak with and admire the area before going into what you usually think of as oral sex."

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Go With the Flow

Don’t be afraid of oral sex during menstruation. If your partner is down to try it, give yourself permission to receive it! “Many vulva owners find they’re more sensitive and have a higher sex drive during their period, making it a prime time for oral fun,” says certified sexpert Isabelle Uren, writer at Bedbible.com. Not ready to dive right into that crimson tide? “Menstrual cups are great options for period sex, as everything is completely contained within the vagina, leaving the whole labia and clitoris free.” If you’re extra worried, try it in the shower to facilitate clean-up

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The Face Time

Help control exactly how much intensity you want by straddling your partner and pressing your vulva against their mouth. It's kinda like face sitting but less of the sitting part. You can sort of rub against them or sort of angle yourself where you want and let them take over. Your partner has their hands free to squeeze your thighs and/or masturbate during bc you're so damn hot

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The Double Down

If you're having oral fatigue or just want to amp things up, pop on a wearable finger vibe. If a vulva is involved, try pressing it on one side of the clit while licking the other side. With a penis, try pressing it on the bottom side of the shaft, just under the head or against their perineum.

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Weak in the Knees

Something about standing oral just feels more must-have-you-now
intense. Tease them a little first by kneeling down and mouthing the outside of their underwear, breathing your warm breath onto them, and kissing and sucking them through the fabric. Keep it up until they beg you to remove them

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The Seated 7 and 1

Make a penis happy by using your mouth and hand together, seven strokes up and then one glorious one down. For a vulva, switch between an intense move (deep sucking, shaking your head back and forth, rapid tongue flicks) then a few long languorous licks up their entire vulva. When incoherent moaning occurs, you’re hit the right ratio.

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The House Bound

Restraints are great for people who have trouble getting out of their heads. Try having one person lying back with their wrists bound behind their knees. The position and the binding kind of forces vulnerability and really focuses attention on the sensations happening

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Oral Sex for One, Please

If you don’t have a partner around, you can mimic the sensations of oral sex by your own damn self. Try a toy like a Womanizer—the toy we never knew we absolutely needed—for gentle clit suckery. Or get down with an Ora, which has a vibrator and a little round ball that rolls around your clit in a kind of infuriatingly delightful way. Choose a pattern, lie back, and allow the ravishment.

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The Shark Fin

Since oral is impossible to pull off underwater, lie back on a towel with your hips at the edge of the tub. Spread your legs, letting your feet dangle in the water, and appreciate what your partner can do with their mouth. If they’re happy soaking among the warm jets, they can stay down below for a bit longer. Win-win for everyone.

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The Butterball

This is a great position not only for cunnilingus, but for a rim job as well. Get yourselves showered up, then the receiver lies back with their knees bent up toward their chest. “This position still gives the giving partner easy access to the receiver’s breasts and clitoris—or with a male butt, access to the penis and testicles—for stimulation fun,” says sex coach Kenneth Play. "If you want to use a barrier for your rimming but don’t have a dental dam handy, a quick sex hack is to grab some plastic wrap to use instead.

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The Deep Sea Diver

Another A+ rim job pose, “it can be a really hot introduction to take a shower together and start practicing some rimming while you’re in there,” says feminist erotic filmmaker Erika Lust. “For beginners, I recommend doing a simple standing position. The receiver can stand up, holding on to the wall if they need to, and the other person can crouch down behind them. I recommend this for people who feel self-conscious or worry that it’s not hygienic or clean.

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The Live Show

If your partner likes it when you take control, you could have a “take charge” session where you sit them in a chair, blindfold them, and tell them you’re in charge for the night, not letting them orgasm till you say it’s okay. Next time, it’s your fantasy

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The Saddle Straddle

If you’ve got a dominant partner with a penis, they will looooove straddling you as you stroke and suck their member. Try using both hands, twisting your way up and down their shaft and licking the area around their head

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