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Easy Oral

Find a sturdy chair and have the receiver plant their feet firmly on the seat, knees open so the receiver can perform oral sex.

“This method is easier and more comfortable than oral sex in bed,” says Freya, who suggests putting a pillow or folded blanket under the giver's knees for extra comfort. "If the receiver wants extra stimulation, they can use a suction-cup dildo or another hands-free sex toy."

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Dinner Is Served

Have the giving partner sit on a chair at the dining table, and the receiver lie in front of them, with their legs over their partner’s shoulders to raise their pelvis a bit. Freya says this position is *especially* great for vulva-owners, as it creates an angle that makes it easier to reach the inner hot spots and cervix.

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Closer to Mine

To go ~really~ deep with your partner, Freya recommends sharing a chair with the giver sitting facing the rear of the chair, and receiver sitting on their partner’s lap facing the other way. “This intimate position encourages kissing, eye contact, and emotional connection alongside physical intimacy during penetrative sex,” says Freya. If you want some deep orgasms with all that intimacy, feel free to add a vibrating penis ring.

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The Easy Chair

The most basic chair sex position: one person sits on a chair, the other faces them and straddles their lap. If you’re going for penetration, lower yourself onto the penetrating partner’s penis or dildo and move as you please, a la cowgirl position. “You can control how slow or fast you want to go. It’s also perfect for couples who want more kissing, cuddling, and some butt and breast play,” says Aliyah Moore, PhD, resident certified sex therapist at SexualAlpha.

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The Sit Your Ass Down

Experiment with light bondage, incorporating props to make it even hotter. “A chair with arms is perfectly designed for tying down your wrists. You can also tie them down at their ankles or use a blindfold to tease and build anticipation. Use silk scarves, neckties or a bondage kit,” says O’Reilly. Teasing with a toy or mouth makes it even hotter.

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The Champagne Room

One person sits while the other person backs that ass up, taking a seat on their partner’s penis/strap-on. It works for anal or vaginal sex and both partners’ hands are free for rubbing, touching and holding toys. “Vibrator highly recommended!” says Struyk. Try a vibrating cock ring that’s both penis and clit pleasin’.

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The Dog Chair

A chair gives you a soft perching spot for a modified doggy. “If the chair has a large enough seat bed, the receiver can kneel on the chair while the giver penetrates from behind,” says Nicole Moore, a love and relationships coach. If you want to up the stimulation, straddle the arm (sturdy, upholstered chair only) with a vibe propped between you and the arm. The giver can kneel, crouch or stand with their hands on the chair for leverage.

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The All Hail the Queen

Chairs are also great for oral sex, aka queening. One person (say, you) sits down with their legs spread a little. “Have your giving partner kneel down and serve you with pleasure using their mouths, hands, a sex toy like a bullet vibrator or dildo, or all of the above,” says Aliyah. “I usually recommend a sex position enhancer chair with a cushioned, holed seat for easy access, or a simple but quality queening stool for couples on a budget.”

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The Couch and Grind

“For y’all independent queens, you can use your couch for some solo play action,” says Aliyah. “Put a waterproof throw blanket or sheet on the arm of your choice of couch or chair. Begin with gentle and small movements so you can stimulate your clit with consistent pressure. Then, as the intensity builds up, add more movements and put more pressure on your clit. If steady pressure and movements aren’t enough to get you off, try adding your fave bullet vibe.” Use a soft upholstered chair for this one unless you’re into the BDSM-y aspect of a hard wooden arm.

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